Note: I wrote this in 2016 a month after Donald Trump’s shocking win. I still maintain we need to talk and listen to Trump voters, but I will admit that would go overboard at times on my posts on social media which might have affected some friendships. While I hope for Trump to lose tomorrow, I still want to listen and be curious about Trump voters. I want to see them as children of God and not deplorables.
The first day or two after the election, I decided to contact friends and acquaintances who had voted for Donald Trump. I wanted to apologize if I said anything off-putting to them. All of them were gracious and even told me why they considered voting for Trump. I took their responses to heart. I didn't always agree with their reasons, but I was glad to hear them and to give Trump voters a more humane face.
What's been sad is that most progressive Christians haven't been willing to sit and talk to Trump voters. Like their secular counterparts, there is more interest in talking about Trump voters instead of talking with them.
Most of the criticism against Trump voters has come in the form of saying that they know that Person A who voted for Trump is a racist, but that they knew who they were voting for. An example of this is a post by John Pavlovitz in mid-November. He starts by saying that he understands the reason people decided to vote for the Donald, but they were aware of the dark sides as well:
I know you had legitimate reasons for voting for him; things that either real or imagined, genuinely moved you to your decision and that you wrestled with these reasons greatly. But I don’t care about those reasons; not because I don’t care about you or value you or want to understand you or because I don’t respect your road, but because those reasons can’t help those who are hurting right now—only your response can.
You see, regardless of why you voted for him, you did vote for him. Your affirmation of him and your elevation of him to this position, came with what you knew about him:
It came after hearing the horrible, degrading, vile things he said about women.
It came after hearing him encourage his supporters to be violent with protestors.
It came after he advocated for Muslims to be expelled and profiled.
It came after he made fun of a man with physical disability.
It came after he framed the BlackLivesMatter movement as criminal and subversive.
It came after he personally criticized the appearance and weight and sexual activity of women opponents.
It came after he chose a Vice President who believes gay people can pray away their gayness.
It came after the KKK and the neo-Nazis endorsed him.These were all things you had to weigh to cast your vote, and by whatever method you used, you declared theses things within your morally acceptable parameters. You deemed these part of the “lesser of two evils”. In voting your conscience—these things made the cut.
This is kind of an aggressive way of saying these folks are wrong and maybe morally suspect. People make decisions when they vote, and sometimes, things are ignored because of higher concerns. It's not something I like or would do, but people don't vote for saints. There is the same kind of backhanded contempt in this video by Sojourners.
The problem with these responses is that they treat the people who voted for Trump as either racist or indifferent to persons of color. It's less about reconciliation than it is about shaming.
The thing is for those who are Christians and didn't vote for Trump, we need to be able to listen to Trump voters. Why did they vote the way they did? How can the church respond? How can we show voters there is an alternative?
Sometimes the people who voted for Trump did so for economic reasons. That's been considered false by opponents, but I think there is a lot of truth to the claim. Writer Morgan Pheme says we should try to understand those voters and listen with some empathy:
Over the last week I have heard far too many of my fellow progressives dismiss Trump’s voters as racists, misogynists and fascists. While there are certainly a depressing number of them that deserve these characterizations, to brush aside the more than 61 million Americans who cast their ballots for Trump as mere hateful idiots is to perpetuate the liberal elitism that helped fuel Trump’s success and to disregard the economic and social problems plaguing our country.
There was a reason that Trump’s and Bernie Sanders’s cries for economic populism intermingled to a discomfiting degree during the campaign season: America is in thrall to corporate interests at the expense of blue-collar and low-wage workers; both parties were complicit in giving Wall Street a pass in the wake of the 2008 fiscal crisis; Democratic and Republican administrations have both driven disastrous deregulation in service of the donor class.But we must also acknowledge that when hard-working people cannot support their families, when they suffer the loss of their dignity, when they can’t see a path for their children to have a better life than their own—the very crux of the American dream—these are conditions that can both unleash the ugliest elements of human nature—and propel people to throw caution and reason to the wind for the simple promise of hope and change.
There are Trump voters in our congregation. Instead of shaming them, maybe we need to seek them out and listen. We don't have to agree with them, but we need to take the time to listen. If Christianity is about reconciliation, then this is a good opportunity to live that out.
"There are Trump voters in our congregation. Instead of shaming them, maybe we need to seek them out and listen." This is the biggest point I need to remember as a pastor and member of my community.
I was at an event in on Inauguration Day 2017 and the room, skewing democrat, was very anti-Trump. To the point that if I was a Trump voter I would not have been comfortable. I made the point to the group that statistically there was at least 1 Trump voter in the room and that if we were ever going to be able to learn from one another we'd need to start with listening instead of shame. That seems like forever ago.
I know this was written in 2016, but in the nearly ten years that Trump has been directly involved in politics, he has shown his character. People who identify as Republicans I can probably still talk to and many of them are voting for Harris. And then there are die hard separatists who call themselves MAGA. That is a totally different story (and I seriously doubt that those people are in your church).
Those people do not want to be reconciled. Reconciliation is a two way street and they have made it clear that they want no part of it. Reconciliation in this country has always been brief and probably more a strategic alliance against a common enemy than mutual trust and cooperation. To ignore that reality which keeps playing out in different forms over our country's history is to not appreciate that there are some things that we will not see common ground on. And instead of letting bygones be bygones, one group will openly antagonize the other and be bullies. While the left will admonish and look down on these people, trust me, they are typically not the ones that you have to worry about causing domestic violence/terrorism on a large scale. That calling card belongs to the far right.
And we have, unfortunately, a lot of far right sympathizers for various reasons. As people fall into this and become more entwined in the romantism/fantasy of a perfect Protestant Christian nation of yore that hand no problems whatsoever, their hearts become hardened, their eyes blinded and their hearts closed to any and all possibilities that do not align with their crystalized beliefs. You don't win with people who equate their struggle to a holy war. It's no longer a matter of policy, but good versus evil.
We live in dangerous times and fortunately, most Americans love democracy more than political vision of the far right. However, with the co-option of all the worst of American Protestantism within that group, the witness of Jesus suffers greatly and will forever close the doors to future generations. All we have to do is look how quickly Europe secularized after WWII to see what awaits the future of Christianity if this madness continues.